People Over Problems
We are all a people in process, walking alongside one another closer to Jesus. But sometimes we find ourselves distant from the people we set out with.
At times, it feels like we have been hurt, wronged, and misunderstood. Sometimes, it's like the problem becomes bigger than the person. Is this how followers of Jesus should respond to conflict with one another?
Reconciliation, or the process of restoring relationships, paints the picture of who God calls us to be to those around us.
This doesn’t mean we put ourselves in positions to get hurt. It means that followers of Jesus find ways to mend relationships so that His glory can be shown.
When conflict gets in the way of people, we can’t forget why we are together and who we are becoming.
Why are we together? When you find yourself in relationships with others, you discover a sense of community and unity that brings you together.
When conflict comes up, we often forget why we were even in the community and relationship in the first place.
Who are we becoming? Every one of us is becoming someone. We are being discipled by the things we encounter everywhere we go.
Followers of Jesus are becoming more and more like Him every step of the way. When you are in relationship with others walking in the same direction, conflict will make you forget who you are becoming along the way.
After remembering why we are together and who we are becoming, there's one question left: How do we respond? At times, we might want to show up trying to convince or be right.
But Jesus invites us to walk in humility. Followers of Jesus fight for friendship, not just for being right.
PRAY
God,
Thank you for bringing us together in relationship and community. Thank you for walking with us as we grow and become more like you. May we not lose sight of one another when conflict comes our way. May we be people who see people over problems, walking in grace, forgiveness, and unity. Lead us to reflect on your love in every relationship we find ourselves in.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Dive Deeper
Reconciliation isn’t just something we believe in—it’s something we practice in small, intentional ways.
1. Take the first step toward someone.
Think of a relationship where there’s tension, distance, or unresolved conflict. How might you take the first step in humility?
2. Choose understanding over being right.
The next time conflict arises, pause before responding. Ask yourself, “Am I trying to win, or am I trying to restore?” Practice listening fully before speaking, seeking to understand the other person’s heart.